DeAnne’s Anger Tips

When you go to talk to someone about something they are doing which is causing you anger and hostility, be prepared to state what you want (or how the problem should be solved) several times.  You do this because most people do not listen; they are busy thinking up a obstructive response to your requested action.  Even though it will sound dumb in your own ears, keep repeating what it is you want like a broken record.  Usually repeating four times will do the trick.  At that point, the other person will finally hear you and say something like, “Okay, I’m willing to do that.”

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